Not the A-hole.
You had every right to feel violated because posting your name and work badge online without your permission is a huge breach of privacy and trust. Even if she meant well, putting your personal information online is not okay, especially if it could hurt your job or reputation.
You didn’t go too far. It’s normal to want to protect yourself from someone who has already made bad decisions. It’s okay to ask friends if they know someone in private, but it’s not okay to share private information on a public forum. Ghosting isn’t the best thing to do, but in this case, you were right to leave. She broke your trust before the relationship even started.
AITAH for ghosting a woman after learning she published me on fb?
