A 25-year-old woman is clashing with her girlfriend, Amy, over what life with children will really look like. Amy is a perfectionist and extreme germaphobe who keeps her toothbrush in a Ziploc bag, showers multiple times a day, drives a spotless car, and even hand washes clothes. She insists her future home and kids will remain just as pristine. But her partner, who grew up surrounded by younger siblings and cousins, knows from experience that toddlers mean chaos, mess, and constant accidents.
When she gently warned Amy about diapers, spills, and sticky jam fingers, the conversation spiraled. Amy accused her of being unsupportive and sabotaging their future together. Now she is questioning if her realistic view of parenting makes her the bad guy or if Amy’s expectations are a ticking time bomb for heartbreak.
AITAH for telling my girlfriend she’s going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids?
