A 39-year-old woman said that her boyfriend, who is 43, gets up for work at 5:30 a.m., and she gets up at 7. She usually doesn’t mind that he gets ready in the morning without making a lot of noise. But one day, he turned on the light, made coffee, and asked her to move over so he could drink his coffee in bed while scrolling through his phone and tapping his foot. The noise and light kept her awake, so she got up in a huff. He told her she had a bad attitude and “ruined his day” when she did.
She thinks he was rude because it’s polite to not wake someone up when they’re still sleeping. Her mom agreed with her and said that he probably just wanted to be close, but his behavior was still rude. Most people would say she’s not the A-hole; waking someone up for no reason is annoying, and her response was completely normal.
AITA for yelling at my BF because he woke me up?
