A 19-year-old man says that he and his girlfriend moved in together to save money and see if they would be compatible in the long run. Lately, she’s been partying every weekend, making a mess, and not being very helpful around their shared apartment. When his parents came over for dinner, which she had said she was looking forward to, she canceled at the last minute to celebrate a friend’s promotion. That was the last straw. He told his parents she had to go to work, but later found out she came home high.
The next morning, he confronted her and told her he was upset and disrespected by how she had acted. The fight got worse, and he told her to “get her shit together.” She told him he was insecure, wouldn’t say she was sorry, and said she hadn’t done anything wrong. He is now wondering if he went too far by being honest or if his anger was justified.
AITA for telling my girlfriend to get her shit together?
