You and Noa started dating long before your parents ever got involved, so it’s not like you did anything wrong or weird; they’re the ones who complicated things by deciding to date each other. You’re not related, you didn’t grow up as family, and there’s nothing “incestuous” about your relationship. Your dad and her mom are trying to call you “siblings,” and guilt you into breaking up is manipulative and immature.
They’re adults who chose to pursue a relationship knowing it would make things awkward. It’s unfair for them to expect you two to give up a healthy, preexisting relationship for the sake of their convenience or image. You might be petty with the elopement joke, but honestly? Given how controlling and weird they’ve been, it’s understandable. You didn’t create this mess, they did.
AITA for refusing to break up with my girlfriend because my dad got engaged to her mom?
