On your end, you sound as if you really care about Hannah — you were concerned and waiting for updates when she told you. And then upon her arrival home, it sounds like you promptly consoled her. You also had a busy schedule and let’s face it, you probably weren’t thinking too clearly when the text came in half-asleep at 10:30 p.m. You knew treatment was being given, and you were going to sleep so you could work the next morning. That is not heartless — just practical.
But from her dad’s side, well, it don’t look good. He’s witnessing his daughter suffer alone as her boyfriend slumbers — emotionally, that smarts. But context is important: you weren’t being oblivious to her; you simply didn’t understand the potential impact of your presence at that moment.
AITA For Not Visiting My GF in the Hospital?
