You’re not NTA; your mom’s actions were way over the line for a normal parent.
You told her where you were, assured her you were safe, and she still wanted personal information that she had no right to, especially after you told her it made you uncomfortable. Her response—50+ calls, emotional punishment, and the silent treatment—has nothing to do with safety and everything to do with control and not respecting your adult boundaries.
Blocking her after that was a smart way to protect yourself, not a sign of disrespect. She wasn’t listening to your “no,” and even if you’re a parent, calling her all the time is harassment. Giving you the silent treatment and having your dad act as a go-between are both ways to make you feel bad about setting a boundary. You don’t have to give in to that. But for now, NTA, you’re not being mean; you’re standing up for your right to be free.
AITA for not telling my mom my friend’s name and blocking her after she called 50+ times?
