A 26-year-old man said that he has been with his Italian boyfriend, Luca, for five years and recently moved to Italy to be with him. They stayed with his friend Emma while they were in Canada. Emma started flirting with Luca even though she knew they were together. She got defensive and called him a “passport bro” when he told her to stop. She said he was creepy for dating an Italian man and suggested that he was taking advantage of Luca. She even said strange things about his supposed “white savior complex,” even though they were both the same age and really loved each other.
He got angry and said something snarky about Emma’s obsession with “omegaverse yaoi” because he felt like he was being attacked and humiliated. Now Emma has turned their friends against him, and Luca thinks he should say sorry and set limits. Most people would say he is not the A-hole. Emma’s accusations were rude and based on bias, and his outburst was a normal response to being insulted unfairly.
AITA for crashing out bc my friend called me a passport bro
